#Closure is something we seek when we so desperately wish to close and lock the door to the existence of the past so we can move forward towards what lies ahead, but at the same time, we don't actually want to because sometimes, we're just not ready to let go yet. There is a part of us that is afraid of the change we will feel when that person or thing that was once always there, just isn't there anymore. A part of us that hopes the answer will be different even though we know the answer. The change...it's too sudden. It was unexpected. And you weren't prepared.
This is exactly why practicing how to stay present and truly giving all your attention into the moment is a great skill to improve, you never know when that moment will end, and you never know when the last time you'll see someone is.
The #truth is, we will never be prepared for what life has in store for us because we don't know what that even is. All we can do is choose where we want to be and trust that we will make it there. There will be stop signs, dead-ends, and detours along the way, but don't let that discourage you and prevent you from always moving forward.
Seeking closure will not soothe your mind and #soul if that's what you were hoping for, #truthalert. But allowing closure to show itself to you by #surrendering to the change is the key to entering the most #abundant door.
All my Love,