It was NEVER about HEALING

As Eleanor Roosevelt once said: "Today is the oldest you've ever been, and the youngest you'll ever be again." // Here, I say: "Today is the smartest you've ever been, and the stupidest you'll ever be again."

"Maybe our journey was never about healing, but about developing." - etconscioushealing

When we're in the process of healing, it's easy to get entangled in a healing loop. Feeling like we've healed...but then we question ourselves...have we really? We ask AM I HEALED? WHAT ELSE DO I HAVE TO DO? If you've ever felt like this, try changing the word "healing" to the word "developing."

And if you are on a journey of self-developing and not getting anywhere, getting frustrated and angry at self, change the word "developing" to "healing."

I am developing & I am healing.

Tell yourself that you are developing whilst healing. Or tell yourself you are healing whilst you are developing. Our feminine energy is about healing and our masculine energy is about developing. We are all healing and developing simultaneously. We are all both and we are all on a journey towards collectively healing our history in order to create a better future, not just for ourselves, but for our future self as well as future generations.

At the end of the day, we are all perfectly imperfect, we are who source created us to be and we must embrace the way we were created. Otherwise, we will get pulled down into lower vibrational ways of being. Being pulled into lower vibrational energies is not a bad thing, it is a way to show us that we are not embracing our true self, our true nature, and trusting all of the innate talents and wisdom that we naturally embody. We aren't using the gifts that source has blessed us with.

Emotions aren't negative, nor are they positive. Emotions are the coding of our soul and our heart. We use our conscious brain to try to verbalize how we feel with words, to communicate how we feel to each other, and to help us find out why feel a certain way. We weren't all taught how to verablize emotions healthily. We were mostly taught to consume information and leave our emotions behind. And the feeling of getting left behind feels real shitty, doesn't it? If we really pay attention, we actually do not need words to communicate. On a soul level, we all recognize each other. Honor your mind and give it time to process emotions, THEN communicate. Our future selves will thank us for doing so rather than acting up in the moment out of ego, or making a decision based in ego.

Let me know your thoughts.

Much Love,


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